In reply to Jm

so jm that time u asked ask to tell u whether u are wrong or right...

ter say u are wrong.. LOL..

but anyways...

this kinda stuff no wrong no right... no black no white... there is no light, and u just gotta hold on tight..

WOW... THAT ACTUALLY SOUNDS COOL... hahaha...

-.-

MOVING ON....

this is what u wrote...

"Love is great, love conquers all."

often i alw wonder abt this phrase whether issit true or not. but i believe this phrase is true most of the time, well in my context tat is. coz i noe tat if u truly love the person, no matter wad he/she does, u are able to accept it or at least highlight the problem out to yr partner and try to find a soln tgt. well this is a truly ideal situation. but things doesnt alw swing this way. sometimes u need to find a soln on yr own esp when ur partner is very pissed/irritated with u. i believe tat alot of ppl, guys esp, alw tell the partner tat he/she wun do it agn and so on whenever he/she did something wrong. it happens so tat nx time, it happened agn. it is like u are contradicting yrself - u promising yr partner and u did the opposite thing. there is a chinese saying - 'if u dun hav such a big mouth, dun blow such a big trumpet.' i think it is along this line. hahas. well i told my fren once - 'saying/promising doesnt mean anything. action does.' well i find this phrase tat i told my fren very true. ppl wud wan to see action being done, rather than empty promises.

Love conquers all? hmmm

spoken like a true optimist by perceived by a true realist.

i guess in love, u have to be realistic...

i mean, ur love is great it conquers all... but one thing it cannot conquer, is your expection...
which kinda arises from your love too.. which complicates matters...

anyways this is my own opinion haha... spoken from one who swears off relationships... haha
spoken by one who knows and believes in love but yet chooses to stay away...

=)

yes.. u can love a person with all u can. all your heart... but when your expectations are not met...

u will be disappointed and yes... your love cannot help u here because it is the love that creates the expectation...

like for example...

you are sick and u want your gf (using gf as an example cos i'm a boy/man/man-child, not a sexist)
yet you dont want to tell her to come or to sms you to ask u how u are....
u EXPECT them to come and to care...
and even though they don wanna disturb and dont know if u want them over, u are too proud to ask or just want them to come over by their own accord.

and if they dont... u will blame them... and mayb even think they don care if they nv sms u or call u or anything....

the fact is that mayb they do and jsut don wanna disturb u...

but the problem is u expect them to be there...

and the disappointment is realli great when u realise someone u thought will be there for u when u really need is not there.

and love cannot overcome this.. because u expect them to out of love

or

when your gf promises u smth but in the end cannot do it or say that she cant do it but cannot tell u the reason...

can u realli just say "love conquers all" ?

not u cant simply because u are human..

u can accept it or smth but u will be disappointed... in the end u think u can suppress it but for how long? is it realli you to suppress it? do u have to suppress it? will u crack eventually?

as long as u are disappointed... love cannot conquer it all... and eventually... u will crack...

so deal with it... even if its not the first time it comes out... do it...
and sometimes even if u say u wont do smth again... more often than not u will again...

for eg expectations...

as long as your partner falls short u WILL be disappointed...

is it your expectations? is it her contribution?

there is no ans...

love does not conquer it all....

but u can conquer love... with realism... and u will conquer your expectations....

and if u still cant...

do u let go?

or do u hold on...

that will determine love...

i'll leave u with that